December 2000 Staff Meeting Letter from Publisher Words of Wisdom from legendary Notre Dame coach Ara Parseghian News and Notes -San Jose player loses leg ... Arizona State has hair-raising experience ... Tomey attacks vicious hits ... Kubiak may be going home ... Stoops wins big pay hike ... Grove City senior sets passing record ... Rams go back to move forward ... World's Largest Outdoor Cocktail Party may get new venue ... Spurrier is staying put ... Storm clouds hover over Sun Bowl ... Coaches take big hits ... VMI considers becoming independent ... Auburn's Tuberville is a million-dollar man High School Notes Spotlight Mickey Andrews' Secret - Florida State's longtime defensive coordinator is known as an aggressive, no-holes-barred coach. But some of his closest allies and longest rivals say he also has a kinder, gentler side. by Jane Musgrave The Look - Football players at Robert